Sunday, September 30, 2012

Narsistic things remembered

A Narcissist behaves almost like a broken record and a reflection of other narcissist.

take this


In a bizarrely childish behavior, your mother may even select choice tidbits off your plate to eat or to give to a more favored child:

Food was frequently taken from me. The most vibrant memory was having the watermelon heart eaten off my plate. “Oh, I thought you were going to throw it away,” was the common comeback to my protests.

                                                                        -Judy

 http://daughtersofnarcissisticmothers.com/characteristics-of-narcissistic-mothers.html

How about, Piccadilly ?... She sez "I'm not hungry, I'll just get a ......  Then when you get to the booth a hand comes across your plate and shazam, food is gone.. The remark "We always share"...



Which means ... " I get your stuff when I want to".

or

I've eaten all I want..."here, you eat it".

That's what All, Most, Many Narcissist do. Strange how consistent they are over countries, states, time. 


And... I have more memories.

Saturday, September 29, 2012

I use to get around, but now I don't

In days gone by, I ask only for an interesting life.... next time, I'll qualify it some. I'd guess that living with me has been an adventure, not necessarily fun at times. Still, I'd not wish for money or fame. Heck, I'm still working on a "Quiet and Peaceful Retirement"

Ran into this map and started clicking. Got tired. No point in marking places you just pass thru going somewhere. Got carried away in the US and will take some off.

Greatest lesson of all. There is no place like home.




 
   

       

 

               
  • Create your own travel map.

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Thursday, September 20, 2012

Skip a Rope

Skip a rope, skip a rope. Listen to the children while they play... ain't it kinda funny what the children say, skip a rope. (Henson Cargill)







  • Can't come to see y'all cause there is gun in the house. "Skip a Rope"... but mom had a gun under her mattress every year since we were little kids. "Skip a Rope".
  • You caused him to have pancreatic cancer. "Skip a Rope"
  • Mom, Charlie didn't want you to have anything, anyway. "Skip a Rope, Skip a Rope".
  • You're just a big shitass.... "Skip a Rope"
  • Charlie raised those girls...."Skip a Rope" (charlie arrived here when the youngest was 17 years old)
  • Ive done more working on your computer than you've done for me. "Skip a Rope"

    Cheat on your taxes don't be a fool
    Now what was that they said about the golden rule
    Never mind the rule just play to win

  • I caught up on my taxes, I had the little black girl at the bank do it, she's an expert, a teller, you know. Only cost $500 for the 5 years I didn't file and didn't list the rental income and all that other stuff. "Skip a Rope"

    And hate your neighbor for the shade of his skin.

    "I let my darkie sleep in the carport" "Skip a Rope"

  • See this shirt, Seventy Bucks.. "Skip a Rope"
  • Ma you didn't stand up for me when I tried to take your half of your bank account...."Skip a Rope"
  • Mom, Why didn't we go to Gran's house..."She didn't want us to come". "Skip a Rope"


It has been said that man is a rational animal. All my life I have been searching for evidence which could support this.
Bertrand Russell British author, mathematician, & philosopher (1872 - 1970)

    Ways of the Narcissist, the series

    Who do you know that does this? Sure you do, just think about it.

    The narcissist also uses favoritism and gossip to poison her children's’ relationships. The scapegoat sees the mother as a creature of caprice and cruelty. As is typical of the privileged, the other children don’t see her unfairness and they excuse her abuses. Indeed, they are often recruited by the narcissist to adopt her contemptuous and entitled attitude towards the scapegoat and with her tacit or explicit permission, will inflict further abuse. The scapegoat predictably responds with fury and equal contempt. After her children move on with adult lives, the narcissist makes sure to keep each apprised of the doings of the others, passing on the most discreditable and juicy gossip (as always, disguised as “concern”) about the other children, again, in a way that engenders contempt rather than compassion.

     http://daughtersofnarcissisticmothers.com/characteristics-of-narcissistic-mothers.html


    16. She’s aggressive and shameless. She doesn’t ask. She demands. She makes outrageous requests and she’ll take anything she wants if she thinks she can get away with it. Her demands of her children are posed in a very aggressive way, as are her criticisms. She won’t take no for an answer, pushing and arm-twisting and manipulating to get you to give in.

    Here, you do it. I have a list for you to do. Hehehehe.....  
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    THis is not ours, but looks a lot like her. This is the Fla grandma that shot her son-in-law, then called 911 and told them he shot her. He was not dumb...he had his IPhone on "record" and got the whole thing. Shes in jail and requesting a "restraining order" against him. (Classic Narcissist Mother).