Ways of the Narcissist, the series

Who do you know that does this? Sure you do, just think about it.

The narcissist also uses favoritism and gossip to poison her children's’ relationships. The scapegoat sees the mother as a creature of caprice and cruelty. As is typical of the privileged, the other children don’t see her unfairness and they excuse her abuses. Indeed, they are often recruited by the narcissist to adopt her contemptuous and entitled attitude towards the scapegoat and with her tacit or explicit permission, will inflict further abuse. The scapegoat predictably responds with fury and equal contempt. After her children move on with adult lives, the narcissist makes sure to keep each apprised of the doings of the others, passing on the most discreditable and juicy gossip (as always, disguised as “concern”) about the other children, again, in a way that engenders contempt rather than compassion.

 http://daughtersofnarcissisticmothers.com/characteristics-of-narcissistic-mothers.html


16. She’s aggressive and shameless. She doesn’t ask. She demands. She makes outrageous requests and she’ll take anything she wants if she thinks she can get away with it. Her demands of her children are posed in a very aggressive way, as are her criticisms. She won’t take no for an answer, pushing and arm-twisting and manipulating to get you to give in.

Here, you do it. I have a list for you to do. Hehehehe.....  



THis is not ours, but looks a lot like her. This is the Fla grandma that shot her son-in-law, then called 911 and told them he shot her. He was not dumb...he had his IPhone on "record" and got the whole thing. Shes in jail and requesting a "restraining order" against him. (Classic Narcissist Mother).